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人最大的教养,是原谅父母的不完美

2019-07-26 点击:1975

An aunt, a bad relationship with her daughter, a birthday a few days ago, the prostitute’s nephew came to a big group, but her daughter was not there.

And people are too lazy to find an excuse, just swear: don't want to go.

Auntie is very sad and depressed, come to me for advice.

Said that the family was poor, boiled eggs to cook one, she and her husband are reluctant to eat, to the daughter.

Later, the days were better. They took their children abroad to travel every year.

Some time ago, her daughter had to change her mobile phone. She did not say that she bought a more than 6,000, and she used her daughter to eliminate it.

However, the only child who was so painful, but she did not kiss her. After living, she lived far away. She rarely came home. She gave birth to her son and did not let her take it. She could not see her grandson a few times a year.

I talked with Auntie for a long time. I felt like a reasonable mother who decided to talk to her daughter.

The next day, my daughter’s phone came.

She said: My mother owes me an apology.

Because when she was in her first year, she had slap in the face of her grandmother because of a small incident.

The slap in the face, and the anger and humiliation that is more unbearable than the pain, she still remembers it.

She said that she understood at the time that the mother loved her grandfather.

Then I made up my mind: When I grow up, far away from you, you will love each other, and I have nothing to do with you.

Later, she really couldn't love her mother.

Every time her mother is good to her, she will remember the slap.

Her mother never apologized for the slap in the face, and she has been unable to forgive.

When you think about it, it is hate, it is sadness.

My feeling from start to finish is: she is a person who is too vengeful, filled with hate, these hates, her psychology and life have become deformed.

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我说你必须放弃那些仇恨。

她特别生气:她一直是那么一巴掌,不应该被人记住,它不在乎,是不是太粗鲁了?

我有点说不出话来。

是的,我承认我妈妈做错了什么,甚至太多了,你要记住,没关系。

但是你为什么不同时记住别的东西呢?

三个人吃饭,我母亲只为你煮一个鸡蛋吃。

白雪皑皑的母亲从学校接你,害怕你会滑倒回家,这么冷的日子,她在家里大汗淋漓。

你打喷嚏了,她生下红糖姜水感到震惊。

你病了二十四小时,后来在医院的厕所睡着了。

她花了6000多美元为你买手机,在展位买了一双30美元的鞋子,和其他人讨价还价.

你为什么不记得这些东西?

为什么不能用一次错误抵消百倍的爱情?

仇恨是最大的负面能量。

它会吞噬你的幸福和平安,会让你面对整个世界,竖起一堵高墙,阻挡属于你的光。

02

我小时候,邻居很穷。

有一次他来到客人面前,他煮了肋骨,没煮熟。第二个儿子秘密地拿了几块吃了它。

没有多少,吃一些是不够的。

当客人离开时,第二个儿子遭到父亲的猛烈殴打,或者我的父亲听到隔壁尖叫着急忙攒钱。

我看着脸上带着伤痕累累的哥哥,以为他一定恨他的父亲。

但是,没有。

第二天,人们仍然坐在他父亲的自行车后座上,然后去上学。他脸上的肿胀仍然消失了,但舞蹈非常开心。

我觉得这个伙伴真的很大。

我去年回到家乡,遇见了他。说到这件旧事,他根本不记得了。

他只记得那些日子太糟糕了,债务每年欠下,而且父母到处都在打零工赚钱,但在穷人中,爸爸还给他买了一个篮球。

“当时,肋骨绝对是奢侈品,家里有客人。我还在偷东西,我太无知了,我应该嫉妒。”他狡猾地笑了笑。

人们现在与父母住在一个社区。他们吃喝水和电。他敢于每天接孩子。母亲每天都给他们三口之家做晚餐。饭后,这对老夫妻将孙女带到楼下。美丽。

03

有一种说法是世界上没有父母。我认为情况恰恰相反。

父母,每天这么多人,谁都可以完美无缺?

所有的父母都犯错误。或多或少,无论大小,总会有一些子项。

然而,只要它们不是令人发指的,只要它们给你足够的爱,只要它们尽力提高你,那些错误就不值得一提。

出生的恩典总是比脸上的一巴掌还要大。

容忍父母的小错,原谅他们的不完美,是人类最基本的美德。

他们可能欠你一个道歉,但是怎么样?难道你不欠他们很多爱,能量和财产吗?

同情,如果你有一颗大心脏,因为你有一点可恨的生活,你感觉如何?

父母和孩子在这个世界相遇,他们习惯彼此相爱,而不是互相仇恨。

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